Comments on: 舒缓压力哈 /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/ feedpuppy的个人blog，记录生活里的乱七八糟。日记，游记，影评，音乐，等等等等。 Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:14:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.1 By: Fortune Cookie… - feedpuppy’s 空缺 /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-8157 Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:14:52 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-8157 […] Week，每次研究生学生会都会往我们邮箱里塞点小东西，比如舒缓压力的 Bubble Wrap，比如去年写着各种文字的纽扣。今年的小东西是一个 fortune […]

]]> By: feedpuppy’s 空缺 » Confrontation - C vs U /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-6057 Mon, 28 Apr 2008 23:46:29 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-6057 […] 这周是达摩一年一度的 Graduate Appreciation Week，让平日多躲在暗处的研究生哥哥姐姐叔叔阿姨们出来晾一下。上周我们的邮箱里就收到这么个纽扣，似乎有至少两个版本，一个大意是我是Grad之类然后重点在Grad，而我这个就显然挑衅一点，老美同学说他会用的词是 Confrontational。其实基本每年邮箱里都会有点东西，我第一年的时候是个 twinkie，第二年忘了，去年是舒缓压力的 bubble wrap，今年就成了这个纽扣了，而且还发起研究生周三统一佩戴的活动@_@。这么搞当然也是事出有因，去年达摩的 Association of Alumni 和 Board of Trustees 的斗争可真是风风火火，不仅校内大搞到校长也都发群信解释，校外也是频上各大报纸，最后那个校友联合会更是还把学校告上法庭，咳咳，真是能折腾。这些争斗的直接起因似乎是有关学校管理体系的选举制度的改革，而更深层次的原因是两方对于学校发展方向定位的矛盾，其实一个要点就是校名里的那个 College。达摩不管怎么算都是 University 了，排名也从来分在 U 那类里。其实那一批老牌学校最初都是叫 College，然后随着发展慢慢的改成叫 University，但达摩就死硬着不改，毕竟这是学校招揽未来学生的主要手段，就是强调自己一直很重视本科，希望和某些学校拉开差别。但同时也不能惹了人数众多也同样重要的研究生，所以校长也一直坚定的在 Mission Statement 里把两者放在同样的位置。但毕竟两方面好处都想占着是很花费心力的，肯定会有不同意见的人不停争斗，我有听说激进的一方扬言要完全砍掉研究生部。虽然达摩的研究生部相对来说不大影响力也没有太大，但说砍掉还是很愚蠢的。研究生学会的人显然还挺有种，这次纽扣大大的写着 University 也算直接示威。其实研究生和本科生这种微妙的关系哪里都有，我们本科的时候不也一样会自觉不自觉的分本科生还是研究生，现在自己成了研究生了，也不知不觉的换了阵营。不过说起来，本来就是人生不同阶段，本来就应该有不同。但相同的是，不管在哪里不管身份如何，还是要看自己是否能充分利用所能得到的资源。叫 College 也好叫 University 也好，能争取到的资源就是你的。北大时资源大概用得不足够充分但足够让我深深热爱北大，何况有些时候学校给的资源也是离开学校以后才会展现出来，我已经有所体会；达摩的资源显然利用更不充分，主要还是因为自己更懒了，但至少我还有努力去用，其实学校对学生挺不错的。总之哪，就是得到这么一颗纽扣，然后胡言乱语一下。 « 春光美好宜出行 […]

]]> By: shoushou /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3751 Mon, 30 Apr 2007 12:03:07 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3751 No, I was not showing off. I like struggling with every method that I can find, but at the same time complaining as much as I could. In that way, I can feel better:)

]]> By: feedpuppy’s 空缺 » Depressed /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3730 Fri, 27 Apr 2007 20:48:11 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3730 […] 首页 存档 电影 照片 链接 联系 空缺 Depressed Time: April 27th, 2007; Categary: Diary I was depressed yesterday, most of the day. Then I thought it passed. Yet it began again this noon. There’s nothing serious, just some general frustration, argument, and disappointment to myself. I always become upset periodically anyway. This time, I found the words like “tmd” are really helpful in terms of relieving stress. Oh, this reminds me that I have bubble wrap! […]

]]> By: feedpuppy /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3729 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 13:22:39 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3729 [quote comment=”3723″]i quit my job. my thesis rejected by supervisor. had to stay in pku for half a yr more.feel relieved. could concentrate on my academic work now. sick of journalism shitty things now. would like to have a rest. i suddenly realised how i love to be a student. don’t tell me i’m an escapist…[/quote]
If you didn’t enjoy your job, then quitting is a wise decision. Staying in pku longer is still nice, I miss pku:( Maybe you should consider staying in academia, I can see you being a wonderful teacher:)
[quote comment=”3724″]bug sophia～
安安静静专心做一件事情挺好的，cheer up：）

我也想做学生呢……sigh[/quote]
我现在是想赶快毕业。。。围城唷
[quote comment=”3727″]Pig, the stress is double when you have two supervisors, but for me, I have three for my thesis. You see, the presentation and the publication of papers are already arranged for me! I don’t think you need the thanslation to understand the following message.[/quote]
You are complaining a little too much. Having advisors caring about you and working hard is way better than having a bad advisor. After all, you are trying to get as more as possible from your phd study. I guess, you are kind of complaining AND showing off, hoho.

]]> By: shoushou /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3727 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 09:26:57 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3727 Pig, the stress is double when you have two supervisors, but for me, I have three for my thesis. You see, the presentation and the publication of papers are already arranged for me! I don’t think you need the thanslation to understand the following message.
Autre info, sur la conférence en Chine où je vais aller l’an prochain : An
International Symposium on the topic “Hydration, Microstructure and
Durability: Experiments and Modeling” will be held in Nanjing, China on
October 13-15 2008. The symposium is a joint initiative of the Southeast
University, China, Delft University of Technology, the Netherlands, and
Jiang Su Institute of Building Sciences, China.

Ce serait bien que tu présentes un article et aussi que l’on puisse passer
voir ensemble ton superviser chinois.

]]> By: shoushou /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3726 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 09:03:08 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3726 I am still nervious. My supervisors just gave me so many papers to read!

]]> By: ciel /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3724 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 04:22:21 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3724 bug sophia～
安安静静专心做一件事情挺好的，cheer up：）

我也想做学生呢……sigh

]]> By: *Sophia /blog/2007/04/bubble-wrap-stress-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-3723 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 04:03:40 +0000 /blog/2007_04_581#comment-3723 i quit my job. my thesis rejected by supervisor. had to stay in pku for half a yr more.feel relieved. could concentrate on my academic work now. sick of journalism shitty things now. would like to have a rest. i suddenly realised how i love to be a student. don’t tell me i’m an escapist…

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